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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 09:23 AM
Hello all, I'm not a newbie, but because some people know my usual username, I wanted to post this anonymously. I need the help of my "family" here because I feel like I'm losing battles on every front....with my children, my job being eliminated, my parents....then last night my girlfriend and I had a massive fight on what was supposed to be a special night and our relationship is over. I've never felt so lost and hopeless and alone.
 
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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 09:29 AM
You are never alone. You have friends and family that care.... even your so called enemies care more than you know.

the opposite of Love is indifference.

Know you are loved

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 09:32 AM
Sending positive <<<<vibes>>>. You need to talk to someone. A close friend, brother or sister, Minister, someone. Hang in there.

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 09:39 AM
Hope your troubles are short lived, if possible, but, do seek out someone you can talk to.
 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 09:41 AM
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Sending positive <<<<vibes>>>. You need to talk to someone. A close friend, brother or sister, Minister, someone. Hang in there.


Good advice bro'. I have always noticed that the darkest hour is just before the dawn. May sound trite or cliche but its true. Hang in there because there are others who feel the same as you do and just talking it out will make you feel better. Please avoid alcohol or drungs as they simply mask the problem. Good luck with all of it

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 09:45 AM
Prayers and positive thoughts for you

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 09:50 AM
You may feel like you are losing the battle, but just remember, battles are won and lost, but the war (life) wages on. Don't EVER give up hope. Life has its low points, but tomorrow is a new day. Hang in there, and if you need someone's ear to bend, feel free to PM me. Keep that chin up.

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 09:52 AM
Yes please do hang in there and do not give up, positive thoughts !!

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 10:11 AM
Sending positive vibes and hugsssss out to ya!

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 10:14 AM
Maybe take a step back and reevaluate all that is going on right now. Often times our judgment is clouded because we're so wrapped up in what's directly in front of our face. See the forest through the trees!

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 10:37 AM
sending you strength and love! Know the power is in YOU to get your life the way you want it! So sorry all seems so bleak, and am glad you reached out to your extended family! We are here for you!

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 12:41 PM
Sending out positive and loving vibes to you. We are all brothers and sisters here, whether we argue or not. This is a FamABBly.

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 12:57 PM
Hang in there. We're here for you.
 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 01:17 PM
hang in there...

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 01:23 PM
Hang in there, you are not alone.
 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 01:47 PM
Oh no, that is a terrible feeling. Sending you many positive vibes to help you get through this. Keep in mind that if one door closes another one opens. It'll pass. Keep staying positive and strong.

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 02:36 PM
I understand.... things seem to all go wrong all at the same time... On this site and over at Dickey Betts for me it has become an extension of my family ... and a place to share happiness and unfortunately sad times of our lives... People here are full of compassion , with out question and are ready to stand and hold you up when you think .. you no longer can stand.. With the help of my own family and husband Bill and all my friends.. plus here and there... it makes life alittle more bearable in rough times..

Hang in there... I hope it all takes a turn for the better... sometimes we need to make it happen ... maybe your relationship can still be salvaged...

Keep us updated... and Good Luck and God Bless....

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 02:56 PM
When adversity arises in my life I look to those things that sooth my soul which are music and the outdoors.... I also would look at what looks like a bad situation as an opportunity...POSITIVE VIBES to you

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 04:19 PM
Prayers and positive vibes being sent your way. Hang in there.

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 04:33 PM
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You may feel like you are losing the battle, but just remember, battles are won and lost, but the war (life) wages on. Don't EVER give up hope. Life has its low points, but tomorrow is a new day. Hang in there, and if you need someone's ear to bend, feel free to PM me. Keep that chin up.


Couldn't say it any better than that.

PM to talk, vent or just scream out. I have had many ups and downs over this thing called life. During my years here some people were very supportive and offered great advice. Or were just a listening board. Appreciate it all and enjoy giving back any way I can.

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 05:13 PM
good luck - you'll get through it
just keep putting one foot in front of the other

 

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  posted on 9/11/2009 at 07:34 PM
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You are never alone. You have friends and family that care.... even your so called enemies care more than you know.

the opposite of Love is indifference.

Know you are loved


Ditto what the man said...

 

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  posted on 9/12/2009 at 09:28 AM
Thanks to all who sent these messages of strength and hope. The hardest thing for me is that it's been an 8 year spiral down and there's no magic elevator back up. I've sought help and I can see the road and the steps to feeling better, but that doesn't make nights like last any easier. But the posts here did and thank you all.
 

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  posted on 9/12/2009 at 09:47 AM
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good luck - you'll get through it
just keep putting one foot in front of the other

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I watched someone close to me loose his job, go bankrupt, turned into an alcoholic, got divorced. Then quit the booze, found a job he liked, met a wonderful lady and got married. Now he lives on an acreage with 7-horses, 4-cats, 2-potbellied pigs, bunch of birds. I asked him how he did it. He said 'I just keep putting one foot in front of the other'.

 

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  posted on 9/12/2009 at 10:58 AM
Thoughts are with you, aidez-moi, and hopefully the support shown on this site will 'help you' (hs French kicking in ) get through the struggles you are facing. I've been in that bleek place myself - would guess most here have - and that one-foot-in-front-of-the-other approach, along with faith in the future and the quiet knowledge that this too shall pass is what got me through. That and the support of friends/family - which you have here. The human spirit never fails to amaze ... may the strength in yours help you through your struggles and may your unhappiness be short-lived.

 

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